Dealing with the reality of separation

[PeteWyo]

I don't think I have any options at this point. If she thinks this what she wants then who am I to stand in the way. I really do hope she finds her happiness, I don't know if she will find it, but I have to think about me too. I know I don't have to rush, but she is moving things along quickly, I know that as long as OM is there, nothing will change. And he isn't going anywhere. He lied to his fiancee for 7 years. In particular with a friend's husband for almost the last 6 months of their R. So he will undoubtedly do the same to her, but I can't wait 7 years. I was apparently too controlling by encouraging her to do the things she wanted and saving for retirement, I know now that I can't control her decisions. If this is what she wants, I have to honor that I think.