Thanks labug, it is hard but I knew this was coming. When she asked for her things out of the safe deposit box, I figured this wasn't far behind. It is just shame that she will never get to see all the things I am doing to better myself and has no idea of what I've accomplished up to this point. At least I will be better prepared to deal with whatever is next. Bittersweet though to lose your soulmate and be a better person. The person I was, was loving, caring and dedicated to my W. Someone out there deserves that dedication, I just have to find them I guess. In my heart my W will always be the only one for me. Given the options I have, I'd say it is time to move on.


Me - 32
Wife - 31
No kids
Married - 3
Together - 6
"I need space" - July 2012
Bomb/Presence of OM - August 2012
Separation - September 2012