Thanks MKB23, I understand how ILs would feel that way, but it still hurts when they show it frown I'll try to not talk to them about me and H at all if possible. And yeah, they say that they do not want to put their hands on our "personal" issues and I'm kinda sad they would not help, but after all, I'm not their child, they'd rather have a good relationship with their son, you are right! Thanks!