I really need to shut up. I realized that it's still so hard to control my emotions when it comes to talking about me and H, with... anyone face to face! Like today, after I heard what his mom said, I went back to my room and cried. I really do understand she is supporting him no matter what, I couldn't help feeling really helpless at that moment when she said those things... But yeah, it's a good reference you gave, I just should give up asking ILs about H. They won't say anything no matter what they know...
Yeah....she can't take it anymore. She D'ed before and now she's in a better place, so to her, I don't think it's that big of a deal. She said we met young and we could've made a mistake, which is true, but this D could be a mistake too, but seems they don't look at it that way.