No ego....I get it, you feel totally walked all over. Yet you are hanging in there, wanting to find out if you can give DB a shot and there is chance of success.
Read on, my friend. If success if measured by marriages restored, yes, there are a few here. Mine was, and I would say DB really helped. But that is not what we really think of as success. Its really being able to get to that place were YOU are better.... with or without your spouse. Keep on reading and posting.....
About strange situations, yes, there are tons of those. every kind of weirdness.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go