That's reasurring. She told me that she knows that she'd be screwed without me. I don't think she's really happy about touching again...hugs...she told me this morning not to kiss her....but I needed something b/c it felt like she throws me a bone and goes "I'm trying" but I still just felt like I was being used.
She's been adamant that being physical doesn't help but I have read other books that stress the importance of touch for bonding so maybe it feels forced right now but I'm hoping it will turn things around. Just like telling her we need to go on dates...I do know that in DR there's one part where it says even if you don't want to be around each other b/c you "fight all the time" you need to force yourselves to spend time together to reconnect. She told me that she sometimes wants to avoid me b/c we "fight all the time" and I asked her if she ever thought about the fact that we might "fight all the time" b/c of how little time we were spending together?
So we spent some nice time together yesterday and she agreed to go see the new movie "Lincoln" with me, just need to find a babysitter.
“People are just as happy as they make up their minds to be.” Abraham Lincoln
