wife wants her space, doesnt know who she is

[labug]

ARe you only willing to improve yourself in you can be assured a "win"?

I had a conversation with my IC this morning and despite all the $ucky stuff I've been through in the last 19-20 mos, I told her truthfully, that I have my H to thank for spurring me to improve myself and work on my issues. I am so much happier with myself today than I was then.

So even tho I wouldn't have chosen this path, I'm the better for having walked it. I "won" even tho there are no signs that my M will be saved.

It's a marathon not a sprint, so you have to be in this for the long haul.

What specifically in my message made you rethink this? I listed things to work on and help the sitch.

If you don't know what you need to work on you really are lost.