wife wants her space, doesnt know who she is

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Mastersolo, just caught up on your sitch and saw this: im also wondering is it possible for a young woman to go through an early life crisis?

Good question. People go through life crises at any and all ages. Maybe she feels like she lost her youth and now is trying to get it back, or she doesn't like being married, or she doesn't like being responsible for all the bills, or she's concerned you'll relapse...

Your work doesn't change no matter what. You work on you and leave her to figure out her stuff.

You have a lot to work on.

You didn't take C seriously, bad habits, you've lost your job (not that it's your fault but that can throw an R on shaky ground over the edge).

What are your job prospects looking like? I'd get any job just to prove you're willing to do what it takes to support your family. Check out the package delivery services, it's that time of year. Get 2 "little jobs" if you have to.

You're 25, do you have a role model, someone in your life you look up to? What are his qualities?

If not, make your own list of who you would like to be, how you would like your children to see you, as well as your W.