wife wants her space, doesnt know who she is

[mastersolo]

Right now we aren't staying together, we switch everyother day at our home to be with the kids. I have only stayed with her once in the last few weeks. Before that we stayed together everynight after the bomb was dropped. The reason she wants me to move out by thanksgiving if I don't have a job is because she is paying all the bills. I'm not sure how I say no when she has a point. In all honesty if I could afford the house myself I would tell her she can move out. As far as drinking problem I had a little spell where I lost my cool a few weeks ina row. But I am trying to GAL its just hard with no cash. And the fact that I have very few friends because my wife and I lost most our friends because we were raising kids young and no one wanted to deal with us. But I'll get through. I havnt givin buying her a gift a thought yet I think I ll asses the sitch when its closer to then. Anyways I guess ill just tell her I'm taking the kids to the beach, but what if she wants to come? Anyways I think I addressed everything. Thanks for all the support and advise!