He may be (in denial) but you can't do anything about that and you're the one here now hurting.

I was in denial for about 16-18 mos, of course I cycled through other stages but I always fell back to the denial. There's no shame in that.

The fact remains you don't know what's in his head because he won't share that with you. That's his problem, you didn't do that to him.

He may decide he does want to be with you but I think you're right to have some boundaries.

Good luck, girl!

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss