This plane has landed, baby!

[angel61]

This past week there was a little diversion....

We went to Chicago last weekend to attend our annual convention. Since H and I are in the same field, we usually both attend. Thing is, I knew ex-OW was attending too, all the way from her far away country. With the fiance.

So there were some tense moments pre- convention. I knew about X-ow from a friend who works with her, H did not tell me until I asked him point blank. It started a loaded conversation, where in essence H asked me if I was not trusting him again and if I thought he was going to "rendezvous" with x-OW. It was a little nerve wracking but in a way, I wanted to lead the conversation this way because although we have been OK the past few months, H never really talks about her, and avoids the topic like anything.

Of course I denied it all though... cause truth to tell, I did not feel he was going to meet up with her.

He said that he couldn't care less if xOW was there or no, has not cared for the longest time, and also finally told me that she is probably already married. He still was a little protective of her though, the way I see it, saying "you have to let her be, she's out of the picture and getting married, leave her in peace...as though I were the one giving her trouble!"

I did tell him I was upset that he was doubting my trust....

Anyway, it didn't really matter, we were back to normal at the end of the day. It does seem that not much can shake our sitch nowadays.

So after the convention, I had to travel for work. While away, H called me one day last week and tells me"guess who showed up here!" of course, it was x-OW and her new H. Apparently, they called H (he works 5 mins from the airport)and wanted to meet up with him, and ask advice on where to go in our area.......and so he got to meet the new H over lunch. They actually wanted to invite us all to dinner....ugh. Glad I wasn't home...on the other hand, I wonder how it would have been like....awkward to death???

So H and I had a long convo on the phone about what happened, how the OW and her H were like, what they spoke about....first time! And I got a sense that H is finally over it.

I wanted to tease him actually on how he felt about meeting x-OW's H....did it hurt??? but didn't. I sometimes have a twisted sense of humour but was thinking H might not like it....

Oh well...

ooops, phone is ringing, gotta go!