I said I got a better idea - why don't you just put it in a tupperware <<this is sarcasm- she said thanks I don't know what I would do without you (sarcastically) - I said back to her - Ohhh that is sooo nice to hear (sarcastically).
Hi Sunny ... from what you wrote, seems you started some sarcasm thing(see red above), at least that's how I would interpret it, but I know there is a different culture there in NYC than where I live, and maybe that's just regular everyday talk, so maybe I am wrong.
I would lose the sarcasm generated from your end (and I know its a tough habit to break, I am still working on that), sarcasm is really just veiled anger or annoyance and demeaning, imo.
I would just get her the card for now as I posted earlier. Less can be more.
And gotta watch that the "no fear" doesn't become a monster of it's own...find the middle path...its good to go and re-find your old real self, but, are there any improvements/changes/growing up that can be done there?? Just askin'...
T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
