Honestly, not much. But I think we are pretty quick learners and have learned to apply the principles of dialogue in regular conversation. For instance, we pretty much have learned to just listen to the other person when the topic is touchy, and not make "loaded" comments, or react in a negative way. I think the most important thing we learned is how to keep each conversation "safe". We also recognize it now when the other is treading dangerous ground and have learned to give out warnings...like H would say "where is this leading to..." or I would say "this is being negative again" and we stop and re-assess. It sort of becomes a part of your life after a while and it really does help.
Its hard to keep up with the posts, and inevitably, one or two are missed, but its a good thing that we can make up for it. The SF ones are in Millbrae so that should be good for you!
I'm happy for you too! I've been following your sitch from the start, and am so glad that things are working out. Especially since your kids are still so young.
Keep it up and God bless!
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go
