Even a criminal is let back on the street after time served. Rehabilitation is not a requirement...Society finds a way to give them another chance even if they have the same behavior.
You just equated your H to a criminal, in a way. To a violent, deranged criminal at that.
I dare say you will find a way to see him differently - at some point. But to you he will have "changed" his ways even if he doesn't...back to the perspective thing again, no?
Really? You can't think of a way? A mind like yours, and you can't see a way? I'm surprised. Kind of.
Peace, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."