Just cried and cried. Since PIL met my H. They told me H said he would "talk" to me soon. Since I know for sure that H is seeing the OW, I expect that he is going to tell me for real this time the D.... I'm sad, I don't know what to do.
So I just talked to MIL, just tried to ask her if H said anything else. I guess I knew I wasn't getting anything out of it but I asked. She seemed to be bothered. She said she didn't know and she didn't want to. She just wanted to be supportive without giving an opinion. YES, i do understand that and it's okay. But then she said she told H that he needs to get this done soon, that she can't take it anymore. She said she wanted to see H for the holidays and all that. and the way she said it is like I am the reason she can't see her son. I feel like I should be blamed and i feel so sad here. Her son is cheating and his family thinks I'm the bad thing.
