Dealing with the reality of separation

[PeteWyo]

Starbag, I believe deep down that my W would not be able to do that in person. She is terrified to have to go to the courthouse to finalize everything and see me in person. This is tough for me. When I think of people getting a divorce I think that they are arguing all the time and just can't stand each other, or there is abuse or something like that. Never in a million years would I think that it would go down this way. I still don't know why we are getting a divorce. We were so happy, or I thought we were. I don't know your story either, but I have to assume that your H at least has told you what he is unhappy with.