She just did all that through phone? Are you going to meet to talk about it? I have the same doubt, I think all of us here do not recognize the one we married to frown I do believe there's a chance they change though. And we cannot look for any signs because there won't be any. I guess that's why DB is about us GAL and detach. Hard hard hard. I think you've learned a lot from this though, and that is definitely a good thing. Sigh....I feel like calling my H right now, but I know it's pointless....