Your sitch is not unique by a long shot. There are many members on here who do not live with their spouse, myself included for 14 months of being separated. I'd bet that over 90% of members on here are doing the "tango" solo.
You mentioned that you GAL activities were a complaint. How big of a problem was that? What else did your W complain about? Or was that it?
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa