Now, I'm left wondering, and that's where you can help me. WHAT WILL MAKE HER DECIDE TO COME LIVE WITH ME?
She needs time and space to sort through her thoughts. SHE has to make that decision. You need to work on your 180's and show her a newer, better, improved you. Someone attractive, positive, happy, strong. Are you doing that?
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Is receiving the papers from the lawyer in 2-3 weeks, saying that I filed for the toddler's 50% custody play in my favour at all?
You have to do it to get fair visitation with your child. Will it help your reconciliation chances? Hard to say, it might make her angry but on the other hand it may show her the reality of S if she doesn't get to see the child half the time.
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Once again, I'm left with the impression that things are ok between my wife and I, but she won't come back! Help!
Things are not OK. Just because you had a few hours together and were able to talk and interact calmly should not give you the impression that things are OK and she's ready to move back in. Just try to keep all the interactions peaceful like that, but be patient, this is going to take a long time to resolve.
