wife wants her space, doesnt know who she is

[mastersolo]

Great examples! I guess I'm just starting the process and am having trouble understanding my W actions. She has always been huge on her morals (hard worker, great great mom, doesn't drink all that much, always wants to talk thing through rather than quit, very loving) and now she doesn't talk, drinks quite abit, she was very very distant from the kids but has gotten a lot better. Its like she isn't who she has been her whole life. And I know she won't continue to act how she is because its not who she is. Its like I'm waiting for her to "snap" out of it.

I know this isn't what I'm supposed to do but I'm going to be coming on a chunk of a change and really wanted to take a trip to the beach and was thinking about mentioning to her if she wanted to come. To just get away for a weekend. I feel like me not showing her love is letting her walk away. Anyways I woke up in a funk today and am trying to convince my mind to be happy and positive. Anyways have a great day!