Dealing with the reality of separation

[PeteWyo]

Statistics say most affairs DO END. The Q is are you willing to wait it out?

Wait to see what she has to say and give yourself all the time you want to make YOUR next move.

I wish I knew the answer to this question. I have never been more confident that OM will show his true colors eventually. In fact, since we were all "friends" I feel that I have a great idea how this is all going to go down. You see, OM's fiancee has said that this is exactly how he acted towards her for about a year or so when he broke up her first marriage. Saying that he was going to change and things were going to be different, blah blah blah. I'm not sure I want to wait around and be a 'B Option' for a year or more. I feel that I deserve better than that. Now I am still not rushing out to the courthouse to get papers but I think I am in a much better place to deal with that, if that is what it comes down to.

Going to GP tomorrow to talk to him about getting on some anti-anxiety medication that will help me get back to living my life the way that I want. Hopefully I can get on something that works for me!