Don't force the issue. Call an attorney and find out legally how to proceed.

It sounds like there is mistrust and animosity on both sides. Don't add fuel to the fire.

Remember your goal is to see your son.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss