Your h was mad because he thought his S13 had been whining about staying w/him. He didn't like it that you are so readily available to your child and he wants his son to feel he can count on hm for anything when he's w/him. I'm sorry he took it out on your son.
I'm glad yo have plans for Thanksgiving. Go, have fun, and enjoy the company.
S17 is one smart young man. He sees what his father is losing and can't understand why he would walk away from all that he had. It's unfortuante that they do this and some live to regret it later when it's too late to get back what they lost.
Take care of yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
