I've been trying to figure out an answer to your question. We've been in counseling for a few months now. The counselor said in our last session that my H doesn't like sex, and he didn't deny it. So, I'm dealing with someone who doesn't like sex NOT a LD person.
I now have to figure out if I (HD) can live with the fact that he simply doesn't want to have sex with me at all, assuming that nothing changes. I don't know if I can do that.