That's my H's (LD) once-a-month excuse. If he manages to hold out long enough, it's guaranteed to offer him the perfect excuse to avoid intimacy. Personally, I think it's one of the best times to ML. Other times it's a headache, backache, etc. Sleeping naked doesn't make any difference; nothing does.

I turn 46 tomorrow and my birthday wish would be for someone who wanted to touch me, wanted me to touch them, wanted to be intimate...instead I'm married to someone who offers up the excuse du'jour. I'm just feeling so sad right now.