so i heard a quote today it seem like you are like me in that you make excuses for H behavior at the cost of your own emotional well being.

I have read about detachment here and in db and numerous site but deepak chopra and my church both cover fit today and it was deciding what you want for your self and surrendering the outcome to the universe
so that you are will to accept what come in the form it may come in. decide what you want and need out of a relationship and life

focus on the results you want it may come in the form of your husband turning around and making things work or you may learn a new strength and something else will come around for you.

i don't know if what i am saying is making any since.

m: 32 H:33
T:7
M:4


7/12 says he might want out
8/12 find out about ow he wants a D
9/12 he says he loves me not here wants me back
9/12 he pull away
11/12 still separated