Dealing with the reality of separation

[littleGTO]

GOd does have a plan for us all. I believe that...it just might not be clear what that is right now.

I HAVE to believe that if my M doesn't work out that there is something BETTER for me out there after the dust settles & I am ready for my NEW IMPROVED LIFE.

You have to decide if you are ready or not to "drop the rope" and move on w your life. Each of us does here, whether our S decide to come back or not. And when there is OM/OW is the picture it becomes a different sitch & MUCH HARDER to "see a positive path" ahead as it seems they have already MADE THEIR CHOICE.

Statistics say most affairs DO END. The Q is are you willing to wait it out?

Wait to see what she has to say and give yourself all the time you want to make YOUR next move.

Good luck!