Corri. Sounds like you are doing a great job there. I admire and applaud you. Nice to see an LD person understanding and trying so hard.
Sleeping in the buff is such a great thing. I see how surprised you were at your husbands reaction. You probably can't imagine how much of a wanted invitation that was for your hubby. My wife goes to bed bundled up like an eskimo hibernating for the winter. It makes me feel like she may as well be locked behind a vault. Keep doing what you're doing, sounds like things are turning around.
As others have said...your actions may be regarded suspiciously. Too many times I have had one or two days of good time which always seemed to slip back. This is almost as bad as not having had that time at all, as it leaves me feeling upset because I have once again seen what I could have but it has been taken away from me again.
As to the non-sexual things you do...make sure you understand your partner's love languages. Putting a lot of effort into something that doesn't really register for them will only gain you minor points, and leave you wondering why all your efforts don't seem to count.
I hope things keep getting better and better for you!
