Starbag, thanks for the note. I think the thing I am trying to remember is that I have no control over W and OM. I am confident they are still together, so nothing will ever change as long as that is the case. So I am not hoping for anything to come from this conversation and I am prepared for the worst as well. I don't know what is going to happen but I know that WHATEVER happens, I will be a better person because of it! I am terrified actually but I am trying so very hard to know that God has a plan for me and whatever that means I'm good with that.


Me - 32
Wife - 31
No kids
Married - 3
Together - 6
"I need space" - July 2012
Bomb/Presence of OM - August 2012
Separation - September 2012