Please keep in mind that my what I described in the earlier posting is my interpretation of going dark vs. NC. There use to be a thread on the forum that described both going dark and dim/NC.
If you have the divorce busting book, I believe it describes going dark in there for you. I'll continue to search for the thread and if I locate it, I'll put the link in your thread for you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
