My 2 youngest spent the night with H last night (3rd time in 3 months) Its so hard I HATE IT! When I spoke to S13 last night I said to him "call or text me anytime if you need me" apparently H heard me say that and got mad at S13?

For Thanksgiving me and the kids were invited to H cousins for dinner as they know that we have noone else around, they are good people especially since H is their family not me, but they said he stopped being their family when he did thos to his family.

S17 said to me the other day "I hope what he thinks he's gaining is worth all he's losing" Dunno why I said that it just into my head.

Thanks for listening/reading.


M 41 H 43
M 22
S 18 S 14 D 11
Affair discovered 1/12
He filed 2/12
OW#2 7/12 she lives next door.
D pending