Suddenly things become much more scheduled and less spontaneous when a little kiddo is in the picture.
You may not feel like it was "old married couple" but do you know how she feels?
Yes, it's not easy but the marital relationship should come first because without that, everything is more difficult for your child. I know you can't change where you are right now with the M but it's something to think about.
I understand the sleep issue, I need 8 hrs or I become very crabby. Go out when you can sleep later the next day. There's a solution for every problem.
I agree. The marital relationship needs to come first. We went to a handful of MC sessions about six months ago. The MC talked about the balance between "me time," "us time," and "S time.". W had no problem balancing her time with S time. But she couldn't fit US time in without feeling guilty that she wasn't with S. I don't think she ever worked through that.
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done
