I can't get over all the positives!! Keep it up! Keep it up!! I get the resentful part. My thoughts would be that maybe as you see more and more positives with him you can have a real discussion about your needs as well. Because really it shouldn't be about settling. So in light of that you might also consider 180's that will also fulfill you. Meaning if it is touch you need then perhaps 180's that would encourage that. Am I making any sense?