Hi fuanacdc, I don't know your whole story yet but I just read you've been separated since Sep and your W said she wanted to talk. I just found out that my H told his parents that he will be visiting me soon too. They don't know the details, he didn't contact me directly either. We have no contact at all for 2 months now. I'm scared and I don't know what to say either. Big chance is that he will bring up the D to me I think. I know that he is still highly envolved with the OW. frown This is hard. I hope you will figure out things and I hope I will too.