I'm not sure what you're looking for KD. My H does want to be M'd to me. He was thrilled with my attitude when I came back last weekend. He immediately pursued his list of wants. Things fell apart on Friday because that was the first time I wanted something from him. He didn't deliver. My complaint about his not delivering is "criticism." ... crash and burn.

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Does your H just simply want you to stop nagging, so that he can go about selfishly and do his own thing, without regard to you?
I can't say what he wants but it sure looks that way from here. Coupled with my following around behind him doing everything he wants with him.

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Do you simply want your H to be the dog, rather than the elephant, so that you can go about, doing your own thing, without regard to your H?
No, as I don't with my dog.


Me:49 WAW H:59
T:19.5 M:19
S:13