Suddenly things become much more scheduled and less spontaneous when a little kiddo is in the picture.

You may not feel like it was "old married couple" but do you know how she feels?

Yes, it's not easy but the marital relationship should come first because without that, everything is more difficult for your child. I know you can't change where you are right now with the M but it's something to think about.

I understand the sleep issue, I need 8 hrs or I become very crabby. Go out when you can sleep later the next day. There's a solution for every problem.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss