And if HH is not your thing, go out and do something with friends, on your own. She doesn't have to know what it is. Maybe you could set up a schedule, W you go out Tues and I go on Th.
You're sounding a little like the long-suffering husband sitting home with the baby. Change that up, go out, have a good time, stay out past 10:30. I know you said you always went to bed at a certain time and maybe that's what's driving her crazy-maybe she feels like you've turned into an old married couple. You two are just entering the prime of your lives, don't waste it.
I do need to get out more. I probably go out once per week. It's just so hard to do. I don't like missing out on sleep these days. It makes the next day full of anxiety and depression.
Our life wasn't so much like and old couple... But definitely like a younger couple with a new baby!! Suddenly things become much more scheduled and less spontaneous when a little kiddo is in the picture.
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done
