The post came across as wanting to have a one-night stand. I read that as a way to "get even" with the spouse for cheating.
I view a realtionship similar to a dance or a teeter-totter. One on one side and the other on the other side. When one moves, the other moves to maintain balance.
Often I've seen in relationships where we subconsciously try to "even" the balance. One cheats, so the other does as a way to get back at the other and restore "balance" in the relationship. Not always a conscious choice, but seems commonplace.
Make sense?
AJ
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