I'm sorry, Tumbling.

I have to say that I'm amazed that you're waited this long. Your H's crumbs look few and far between. You must be starving. I like the sound of the EA guy.

This is obviously lots of projection on my part because I don't really know your sitch but at the moment I don't feel your H deserves you. I really like the idea of you going seriously dark. You have nothing to lose.

Since I've followed your sitch, he's caused you lots of heartbreak because of what he doesn't do and say. In some ways, it's probably harder to pinpoint than if he were overtly hostile because it's what he doesn't do that is hurtful.

Enjoy the lovely day, Tumbling. You deserve it.


Me: 51
H: 52
T: 23 yrs
M: 19 yrs
S18, D16, S14 (special needs)
PA: 2003/2004
Piecing: 2004 on
Suspect H had EA: 8/2012-12/2012