Thanks for that Snodderly, I remember about 4 years ago he was having a few problems with is daughter, which perhaps now have been sorted? I went thru a very bad patch with my youngest from about May 05 till about April 07. And every thing seemed O K until a few weeks ago. Suffice to say with my health condition i've started to get a short fuse. And she sometimes does her best to wind me up. So now she knows she's on her last warning, and she would have to go and live elsewhere if she breaks my boundaries again.
Good news is she's going for counselling this coming week. She like me as been the most affected with her mums behaviour/new life. Its also happend that most of her (local friends) can't have contact with her. Because me and Dawn know something thats been going on over at thier place. But they blame Dawn for it, but I know it's nothing to do with Dawn other than her being a shoulder to cry on, so more rejection for Dawn.