Sandi, I always appreciate your posts and growing a pair is what I AM wprking on... I am an appeaser I always have been. But I am slowly leaving that behind... The lols are mainly because I never thought I would be in this position...
it's a pet peeve of mine to see "LOL's" b/c they sound like what my 15y/o DAUGHTER'S friends say...not what a man says.
Please, process what Sandi has written to you and CHANGE FAST...
I am constantly trying to make progress... I was under the impression that I should let her have her space this weekend and let her communicate with me when she is ready... I don't do that as much at home anymore.
of course you have to leave her alone while she's gone on a retreat FROM YOU...
but when you are together, no more "hiding",
BE THERE...really, show up for the marriage...
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
