She means that I cannot be afraid to rock the boat since our ship is already sinking.. she means that she wants to hear my feelings and emotions. That clamming up for so many years has put us in this sitch. It goes against DBing somewhat but it is a specific thing she has asked for which she has stated could very well be the key and I have thought since the beginning almost that it is the main issue.
Why do you think it goes against DBing? It does not. What goes against DBing is more of the same.
You finally did something different, and she hugged you for it. That's GOOD...geez, stop thinking being distant and silent is what YOU need to do.
But yes, back off when she shows she wants space.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
