I would say she is rewriting history. As far as not being the affectionate type I would say she was right about that. I've given it a lot of thought and the only time I would be that way towards her was when I wanted S.
so then, she's right about you not being affectionate with her? B/c foreplay isn't affection, it's foreplay.
You might want to read the Five Love Languages b/c I think it's great for all couples, esp though when you both clearly have different love languages.
In short, she does NOT feel loved by you. Her "Love tank" is empty...or at least she feels it is.
Do you get that?
So you have to speak in HER love language, NOT more of yours, but more of hers...
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
