CV, I really feel for you. So many of the things you say ring true in my sitch - no intimacy, no safety, no trust that H will do what he says he will. It's endlessly frustrating and I can definitely see why you think there's little chance of that changing.

I wish I had some advice for you, but right now I'm just enjoying hearing what AJ and KD have to say to you... it's helpful to me too even though I'm not really the WAW.

I guess what I'd say to you is this: decide what you can live with and what you can't - and see if the non-negotiables can be improved.

Me54, H53
M 23, T 25
S20, S18
BD: April 2024
Moved out: August 2024

Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.

"Being right is the booby prize of life." - Susan Page