I don't know if he is looking for something special, or if he longs for the same thing I do. My wife and I are back to doing it 4 or 5 times a week. I am determined to keep it up, mechanical or not, until we get it right or go bust :-)
All I really want from the relationship in simple terms, is TO BE WANTED. That's it. If she wants me, all the rest of it falls into place. If she wants me, then rejection doesn't exist. The times we don't make love are because something else got in the way - not us - we didn't get in the way.
You can DO FOR your hubby all you want. He might appreciate it, but I doubt he will see it as you wanting him.
Have you ever felt like he didn't want you? I bet it doesn't happen frequently. HD'rs typically don't have a problem letting their spouses know they are wanted. They may fail in other parts of the relationship, but desire usually isn't it.
I hope that helps a little.
Good luck! -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
