I know this bb is for saving marriages and I wish I could save mine but not at the cost of losing myself or harming my children. I want to DB to save myself and also follow and learn from Michelle and others to prepare myself for my future spouse.
I think of it more like it's saving yourself, and a byproduct is saving marriages (if possible - though honestly in your case I would recommend you save yourself!)
Is it all possible for you to see a IC? I know you said you don't have time, but usually it's 45-1 hour per week, or every other week or so. They also operate on a sliding fee scale and if you go to a larger place, they have grants provided by the state and counties. Also check into your county. I wasn't aware of this until reviewing the divorce paperwork but my county has counseling available for no cost.
Me& h + S M: 13 t: 14
H moved 2/12. Own apt 05/12, EAs, PAs, gfriends, oh my! I'm done. 12/12
"I get knocked down, but I get up again.. you're never gonna keep me down" Chumbawumba
