Ed when it comes to your S he is priority number 1. Really happy to hear you are FINALLY doing something for YOURSELF!

I would say something to her about all the cancellations. You can't DB when there is a third person in your M and besides Ed she has so many issues that she needs to work on. You seem so gung ho on getting her back but I think you really need to put things in perspective. Look how long this has been going on and for a mother not to make her child her top priority really speaks volumes. She has no respect for you or your S hell she doesn't even respect herself. She's complaining about giving money for her S? She doesn't wanna buck up because she wants to spend it on booze and God knows what else she is doing!

Ed I think you really need to read Dobsons book Love Must Be Tough its really for someone in your sitch. Enjoy your night out and start to make this a habit.


M 44 W 43
S 23 S 15
INILWY 9/11
Divorce Mediation started 3/13
June 30 the day W is moving out