Being Me, I wanted to post to you about MLC as it was for me to maybe give you a little insight.
-I could have talked all day long about my MLC it would not have speeded it up. -The pain he refers to is thrust upon you, you have no idea where it came from, what it means or why the pain is so bad. -Its tough to imagine unless you've gone through it how bad it hurts. I wish I could be more clear.
You can't compare physical to emotional pain. There 's no tangible measurement to it. All you can do is take my word for it if you choose.
My opinion is people in MLC do not choose to be unhappy and miserable. They don't wake up saying that. I woke up everyday for 2 years saying " pain please go away" "How can I make this better". I just wanted to survive from sunup to sun down, thats it, that was the gaol. Nothing else mattered.The issue is MLC takes a while. You need to accept the pain and then try to work your way though it.
I know it hurts you and Im sorry your in this mess. That's why getting a life and moving on is crucial. Maybe he works through it, maybe he doesn't. I don't think most do. I was a lucky one. but I have empathy for MLC'ers. This phenomenon if you will is thrust upon you, you certainly don't choose it.
You have to move on for you. Save yourself and then maybe, but we all know that already as that is preached here everyday.
