Okay...so if he wants someone to listen about what a horrible wife you were, I am glad it is a therapist smile

Some people just take longer to get to where they need to be and sadly, some people never get there at all. It sounds as if he still has a LOT of forgiving to do.

Hopefully IC helps him to look a little more objectively at his own life and how he lives it every day.

Depression is such a big black hole and if this is what it is, he will benefit from his C to begin to get out.