I'd love to wake up and find my h on top of me or touching me....
I refrain from touching him in such a manner awake or asleep becuase he doesn't always want me to.
so becuase he is the ld yes corri he is the one in control...matters not if he initiates sometimes...it's him that's in control. I can't say no because well then I'm still the looser.
what am I looking for?
what if h uped sex to a definite once a week and a heaven sent twice a week? would I be satisfied??
NOPE!!!
what do I want?
those extra hugs and kisses that don't lead to sex. those extra cuddles that are well just for the sake of it (I can deal with the fact that it makes me want more as long as on occassion I do get more)
touching, loving touch....
there just isn't enough of it around here...I get terribly annoyed when I hear wives complain that their h's are always groping them...try dealing with a h who very rarely if ever does and know that it isn't because you aren't physically attractive!
grrrr!
but on a more productive note...
as hairdog (I almost called you horndog) stated...try discovering h's second language and speak it. in addition try to include more touch in general in life.
